"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone here know how to learn English better?

nelysses

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I know that's not about this forum but I'm a med student and I should read books about that. So I should learn english well. as good as my native. So what Can I do about this? I can communicate with people if i go abroad but not so good and just daily conversations.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Scaramouche

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Hi Nelysses,
My Father Spoke fluent French,learned in three months living with a Lady in Marseilles...as a Boy growing up in a Migrant Hostel I saw young Dutch Boys,fresh off the boat,learning English in six weeks.. It's called immersion learning.
 

zekko

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I know that's not about this forum but I'm a med student and I should read books about that. So I should learn english well. as good as my native. So what Can I do about this? I can communicate with people if i go abroad but not so good and just daily conversations.
Reading this forum seems like a good habit.
 

sevbucmash

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Watch English television, in particular news. Read English books. However, to speak well you will have to socialize with English speakers.
 

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English? Im getting better at that lol. But I'm from South Texas where the majority are Hispanics and I still haven't learned Spanish after all these years. Nor would I be interested in, I like it too much to dislike it. I'm a diagnosed Schizophrenic but I have it under control through medication and several practices, but still eating out at restaurants while understanding Spanish would be somewhat of an intrusive and triggering experience for me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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