"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anyone Here good at Text Game?

Georgepithyou

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So texting a girl

Asking if shes been to this "coffee shop"

She hasnt, she asked if its good

Whats a smooth way to get her availability and transisition into asking her on a date there.

Trying to develop a text framework that i can use
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What’s the previous text?
If anything say “it’s good, I’ll take you next time I go”

if you want to be more playful say “it’s good, do you think you’d make it better tho?”
 

Black Widow Void

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So texting a girl

Asking if shes been to this "coffee shop"

She hasnt, she asked if its good

Whats a smooth way to get her availability and transisition into asking her on a date there.

Trying to develop a text framework that i can use
Her: I haven't. Is it good?
You: I was thinking of going there this week. You should join me and find out.
 

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The less you can do behind an electronic screen, the better. Try to only use text messaging for setting up logistics for in-person get togethers. Most interaction should be done in person. Phone calls also have a use, and have been under utilized in recent times.

We've gotten so accustomed to interacting with women behind an electronic screen in the past decade or so. It's normal now to meet women on a swipe app. It's normal now to text message now a lot. This wasn't necessarily the case 10 to 15 years ago.

The best text message is the one not sent.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't overthink this, just use one of your smooth lines from Casino Royale Daniel.

"I like my coffee as i like my women - shaken and not stirred." She'll be eating out of your hand in no time.
 

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"I don't know. Let's see."
or
"We'll see. If it's not, we can go back to my place. Got some nice bottles of "blablabla" to get drunk on.

Depends on the girl, as long as she's interested and you keep it short, anything would probably work.
 
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