"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Anyone Here good at Text Game?

Georgepithyou

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So texting a girl

Asking if shes been to this "coffee shop"

She hasnt, she asked if its good

Whats a smooth way to get her availability and transisition into asking her on a date there.

Trying to develop a text framework that i can use
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What’s the previous text?
If anything say “it’s good, I’ll take you next time I go”

if you want to be more playful say “it’s good, do you think you’d make it better tho?”
 

Black Widow Void

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So texting a girl

Asking if shes been to this "coffee shop"

She hasnt, she asked if its good

Whats a smooth way to get her availability and transisition into asking her on a date there.

Trying to develop a text framework that i can use
Her: I haven't. Is it good?
You: I was thinking of going there this week. You should join me and find out.
 

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The less you can do behind an electronic screen, the better. Try to only use text messaging for setting up logistics for in-person get togethers. Most interaction should be done in person. Phone calls also have a use, and have been under utilized in recent times.

We've gotten so accustomed to interacting with women behind an electronic screen in the past decade or so. It's normal now to meet women on a swipe app. It's normal now to text message now a lot. This wasn't necessarily the case 10 to 15 years ago.

The best text message is the one not sent.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't overthink this, just use one of your smooth lines from Casino Royale Daniel.

"I like my coffee as i like my women - shaken and not stirred." She'll be eating out of your hand in no time.
 

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"I don't know. Let's see."
or
"We'll see. If it's not, we can go back to my place. Got some nice bottles of "blablabla" to get drunk on.

Depends on the girl, as long as she's interested and you keep it short, anything would probably work.
 
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