"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Anyone Here good at Text Game?

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So texting a girl

Asking if shes been to this "coffee shop"

She hasnt, she asked if its good

Whats a smooth way to get her availability and transisition into asking her on a date there.

Trying to develop a text framework that i can use
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What’s the previous text?
If anything say “it’s good, I’ll take you next time I go”

if you want to be more playful say “it’s good, do you think you’d make it better tho?”
 

Black Widow Void

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So texting a girl

Asking if shes been to this "coffee shop"

She hasnt, she asked if its good

Whats a smooth way to get her availability and transisition into asking her on a date there.

Trying to develop a text framework that i can use
Her: I haven't. Is it good?
You: I was thinking of going there this week. You should join me and find out.
 

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The less you can do behind an electronic screen, the better. Try to only use text messaging for setting up logistics for in-person get togethers. Most interaction should be done in person. Phone calls also have a use, and have been under utilized in recent times.

We've gotten so accustomed to interacting with women behind an electronic screen in the past decade or so. It's normal now to meet women on a swipe app. It's normal now to text message now a lot. This wasn't necessarily the case 10 to 15 years ago.

The best text message is the one not sent.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't overthink this, just use one of your smooth lines from Casino Royale Daniel.

"I like my coffee as i like my women - shaken and not stirred." She'll be eating out of your hand in no time.
 

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"I don't know. Let's see."
or
"We'll see. If it's not, we can go back to my place. Got some nice bottles of "blablabla" to get drunk on.

Depends on the girl, as long as she's interested and you keep it short, anything would probably work.
 
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