"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone here get w/ a girl wayyyyyyyy out of your league?

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A. To answer the title of this thread, no girl is out of my league, I don't care how hot you are. Unless you're a lesbian...even then I'm sure I could get you to slob on my knob a few times.

B. You don't have oneitis just because you hit on a few girls after class? Puh-leaze. Freshman year I was with this girl. I can admit I was whipped. Oneitis all the way. However, she went to a different school. Had she gone to my school, and had the girls at my school known her, she would've thought I was cheating on her. I flirted with just about every cute girl I knew, but I was still "whipped". Flirting doesn't mean you don't have "oneitis". Judging by the "I've got to get her no matter what" and the "Aww it happened again" bull sh*t, you've got it.

I don't care how hot the broad is, she is no better than the next girl. YOU are the man and YOU should be catered to, to an extent. In the end, she should be striving to earn YOUR attention.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lol, a really good friend of mine moved into the class and he sits right behind me, so over the last two days I flat out forgot that girl was there and today she gave me a "why the f'ck aren't you drooling over me" look. I made this thread on how I felt at the moment like I usally do hah.
 

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Have you even talked to the broad very much?
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Have you even talked to the broad very much?
Like I said theres no point in me giving two ****es over this girl, i'm starting to have things open up for me and she has a serious boyfriend. It was just a oneitis at first sight moment. Who cares about her. I proubly talked to her for like 1 minute the day she walked into the class and I was like wow staring at her. It was school related crap.
 

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Okie doke. I wouldnt really care if she has a serious boyfriend. I'd still spit game to the broad.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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