"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Anyone here get w/ a girl wayyyyyyyy out of your league?

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A. To answer the title of this thread, no girl is out of my league, I don't care how hot you are. Unless you're a lesbian...even then I'm sure I could get you to slob on my knob a few times.

B. You don't have oneitis just because you hit on a few girls after class? Puh-leaze. Freshman year I was with this girl. I can admit I was whipped. Oneitis all the way. However, she went to a different school. Had she gone to my school, and had the girls at my school known her, she would've thought I was cheating on her. I flirted with just about every cute girl I knew, but I was still "whipped". Flirting doesn't mean you don't have "oneitis". Judging by the "I've got to get her no matter what" and the "Aww it happened again" bull sh*t, you've got it.

I don't care how hot the broad is, she is no better than the next girl. YOU are the man and YOU should be catered to, to an extent. In the end, she should be striving to earn YOUR attention.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lol, a really good friend of mine moved into the class and he sits right behind me, so over the last two days I flat out forgot that girl was there and today she gave me a "why the f'ck aren't you drooling over me" look. I made this thread on how I felt at the moment like I usally do hah.
 

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Have you even talked to the broad very much?
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Have you even talked to the broad very much?
Like I said theres no point in me giving two ****es over this girl, i'm starting to have things open up for me and she has a serious boyfriend. It was just a oneitis at first sight moment. Who cares about her. I proubly talked to her for like 1 minute the day she walked into the class and I was like wow staring at her. It was school related crap.
 

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Okie doke. I wouldnt really care if she has a serious boyfriend. I'd still spit game to the broad.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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