"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Anyone here get w/ a girl wayyyyyyyy out of your league?

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Anyone here ever get with a girl that was better looking and more popular than you by a lot. Phew damnnnnn theres this girl that just came into one of my classes and sits right next to me and wow my idea of a hb 10. I don't even need to go into details but wow.

I made damn shure I said something to her, school related yea but damn I need to get with this girl no matter what. There's no oneitis btw, I grew out of that, the class after I was hitting on 2 other girls. Damn show me the light lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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And to add to my question, how do you start c+f and crap like that in this situiation. Usally I just take the girls lead but thats not gonna happen this time.
 
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Yo fvck my life i just looked her up on myspace and she has a boyfriend and he's a fvcking guido and they have eachother all over the damn ass myspace as being the love of my life and all that bullllllllll. All the good ones are taken godddddammmit.
 
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lol, awww... That's true though. the good ones are taken.. either that or you get sloppy seconds. you gotta catch em while theyre young! lol
 
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lol, awww... That's true though. the good ones are taken.. either that or you get sloppy seconds. you gotta catch em while theyre young! lol
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Says the man with the 17 year old *****.

How much did you pay her for sex this time? (Assuming you got some).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yes, i did get some today! She paid me too, i made sure of it. so when did you last get some?? never? oh okay...
 
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Ughhhhhhhh this is so fuc/ing depressing, like the 48932579443895 time this has happened.
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Dude... there are plenty of other hotties out there... lol. You're certainly placing her on a pedestal there.
 
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Their either sluts or taken and when I say taken its like their married. And even the sluts are hard.
 
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being the love of my life and all that bull.
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at least your getting somewhere.

Dude, no such thing as an HB10.

Secondly, it is not hard to get a girl like that. It is not hard. Just treat her like any other girl and go for it. You just got to show yourself with enough value for her to look up at you.

Getting over with the hi and a smile is half the value.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Their either sluts or taken and when I say taken its like their married. And even the sluts are hard.
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Bullsh!t. I have met lots of HB9's that are not taken. So, what if they are. Just go for the next one.

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This has put me in a bad mood all day when really, a lot of good sh.t happened. The brightside is, a year ago I would of been to much of a pussie to say anything to her like I did and develop massive oneitis. (psh yes that happened before). I know all this is gradual, but its too easy to get discouraged.
 
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BBX said:
This has put me in a bad mood all day when really, a lot of good sh.t happened. The brightside is, a year ago I would of been to much of a pussie to say anything to her like I did and develop massive oneitis. (psh yes that happened before). I know all this is gradual, but its too easy to get discouraged.
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Sorry bro, im not one to usually say stuff like this, but you already have oneitis for her...

You have two options here...
1. Pursue her anyway, but dont get hung up on her (aka oneitis) like you are

2. Next the b****


Personally, id go with 1, just dont be desperate :up:
 
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haha i've had oneitis before and I can tell you that what i'm whining about now isn't oneitis, its more of a rant. This girl isn't gonna pay any attention to me so whatever forget her. I've proubly said forget her for 5th time this month. Like I said tho, go back to a year on this day and I was not 1% of what I am now.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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there's no such thing as leagues

just girls you'd **** and girls you wouldnt

Labels are for cans, not people
 
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Well said Scandalous.

Put them above you, you lose instantly.
 
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And you guys call me a troll? Dude, read the DJ Bible! There's no such thing as a girl that's out of your league.
 
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And you guys call me a troll? Dude, read the DJ Bible! There's no such thing as a girl that's out of your league.
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WTF? Mr. Confidence is making sense? WTF?

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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