"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone here get w/ a girl wayyyyyyyy out of your league?

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Anyone here ever get with a girl that was better looking and more popular than you by a lot. Phew damnnnnn theres this girl that just came into one of my classes and sits right next to me and wow my idea of a hb 10. I don't even need to go into details but wow.

I made damn shure I said something to her, school related yea but damn I need to get with this girl no matter what. There's no oneitis btw, I grew out of that, the class after I was hitting on 2 other girls. Damn show me the light lol.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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And to add to my question, how do you start c+f and crap like that in this situiation. Usally I just take the girls lead but thats not gonna happen this time.
 

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Yo fvck my life i just looked her up on myspace and she has a boyfriend and he's a fvcking guido and they have eachother all over the damn ass myspace as being the love of my life and all that bullllllllll. All the good ones are taken godddddammmit.
 

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lol, awww... That's true though. the good ones are taken.. either that or you get sloppy seconds. you gotta catch em while theyre young! lol
 

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lol, awww... That's true though. the good ones are taken.. either that or you get sloppy seconds. you gotta catch em while theyre young! lol
Says the man with the 17 year old *****.

How much did you pay her for sex this time? (Assuming you got some).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yes, i did get some today! She paid me too, i made sure of it. so when did you last get some?? never? oh okay...
 

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Ughhhhhhhh this is so fuc/ing depressing, like the 48932579443895 time this has happened.
Dude... there are plenty of other hotties out there... lol. You're certainly placing her on a pedestal there.
 

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Their either sluts or taken and when I say taken its like their married. And even the sluts are hard.
 

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being the love of my life and all that bull.
at least your getting somewhere.

Dude, no such thing as an HB10.

Secondly, it is not hard to get a girl like that. It is not hard. Just treat her like any other girl and go for it. You just got to show yourself with enough value for her to look up at you.

Getting over with the hi and a smile is half the value.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BBX said:
Their either sluts or taken and when I say taken its like their married. And even the sluts are hard.
Bullsh!t. I have met lots of HB9's that are not taken. So, what if they are. Just go for the next one.

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This has put me in a bad mood all day when really, a lot of good sh.t happened. The brightside is, a year ago I would of been to much of a pussie to say anything to her like I did and develop massive oneitis. (psh yes that happened before). I know all this is gradual, but its too easy to get discouraged.
 

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BBX said:
This has put me in a bad mood all day when really, a lot of good sh.t happened. The brightside is, a year ago I would of been to much of a pussie to say anything to her like I did and develop massive oneitis. (psh yes that happened before). I know all this is gradual, but its too easy to get discouraged.
Sorry bro, im not one to usually say stuff like this, but you already have oneitis for her...

You have two options here...
1. Pursue her anyway, but dont get hung up on her (aka oneitis) like you are

2. Next the b****


Personally, id go with 1, just dont be desperate :up:
 

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haha i've had oneitis before and I can tell you that what i'm whining about now isn't oneitis, its more of a rant. This girl isn't gonna pay any attention to me so whatever forget her. I've proubly said forget her for 5th time this month. Like I said tho, go back to a year on this day and I was not 1% of what I am now.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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there's no such thing as leagues

just girls you'd **** and girls you wouldnt

Labels are for cans, not people
 

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Well said Scandalous.

Put them above you, you lose instantly.
 

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And you guys call me a troll? Dude, read the DJ Bible! There's no such thing as a girl that's out of your league.
 

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And you guys call me a troll? Dude, read the DJ Bible! There's no such thing as a girl that's out of your league.
WTF? Mr. Confidence is making sense? WTF?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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