"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anyone here get w/ a girl wayyyyyyyy out of your league?

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Anyone here ever get with a girl that was better looking and more popular than you by a lot. Phew damnnnnn theres this girl that just came into one of my classes and sits right next to me and wow my idea of a hb 10. I don't even need to go into details but wow.

I made damn shure I said something to her, school related yea but damn I need to get with this girl no matter what. There's no oneitis btw, I grew out of that, the class after I was hitting on 2 other girls. Damn show me the light lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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And to add to my question, how do you start c+f and crap like that in this situiation. Usally I just take the girls lead but thats not gonna happen this time.
 

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Yo fvck my life i just looked her up on myspace and she has a boyfriend and he's a fvcking guido and they have eachother all over the damn ass myspace as being the love of my life and all that bullllllllll. All the good ones are taken godddddammmit.
 

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lol, awww... That's true though. the good ones are taken.. either that or you get sloppy seconds. you gotta catch em while theyre young! lol
 

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DasaniWater said:
lol, awww... That's true though. the good ones are taken.. either that or you get sloppy seconds. you gotta catch em while theyre young! lol
Says the man with the 17 year old *****.

How much did you pay her for sex this time? (Assuming you got some).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yes, i did get some today! She paid me too, i made sure of it. so when did you last get some?? never? oh okay...
 

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BBX said:
Ughhhhhhhh this is so fuc/ing depressing, like the 48932579443895 time this has happened.
Dude... there are plenty of other hotties out there... lol. You're certainly placing her on a pedestal there.
 

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Their either sluts or taken and when I say taken its like their married. And even the sluts are hard.
 

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BBX said:
being the love of my life and all that bull.
at least your getting somewhere.

Dude, no such thing as an HB10.

Secondly, it is not hard to get a girl like that. It is not hard. Just treat her like any other girl and go for it. You just got to show yourself with enough value for her to look up at you.

Getting over with the hi and a smile is half the value.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BBX said:
Their either sluts or taken and when I say taken its like their married. And even the sluts are hard.
Bullsh!t. I have met lots of HB9's that are not taken. So, what if they are. Just go for the next one.

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This has put me in a bad mood all day when really, a lot of good sh.t happened. The brightside is, a year ago I would of been to much of a pussie to say anything to her like I did and develop massive oneitis. (psh yes that happened before). I know all this is gradual, but its too easy to get discouraged.
 

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BBX said:
This has put me in a bad mood all day when really, a lot of good sh.t happened. The brightside is, a year ago I would of been to much of a pussie to say anything to her like I did and develop massive oneitis. (psh yes that happened before). I know all this is gradual, but its too easy to get discouraged.
Sorry bro, im not one to usually say stuff like this, but you already have oneitis for her...

You have two options here...
1. Pursue her anyway, but dont get hung up on her (aka oneitis) like you are

2. Next the b****


Personally, id go with 1, just dont be desperate :up:
 

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haha i've had oneitis before and I can tell you that what i'm whining about now isn't oneitis, its more of a rant. This girl isn't gonna pay any attention to me so whatever forget her. I've proubly said forget her for 5th time this month. Like I said tho, go back to a year on this day and I was not 1% of what I am now.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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there's no such thing as leagues

just girls you'd **** and girls you wouldnt

Labels are for cans, not people
 

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Well said Scandalous.

Put them above you, you lose instantly.
 

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And you guys call me a troll? Dude, read the DJ Bible! There's no such thing as a girl that's out of your league.
 

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MrConfidence said:
And you guys call me a troll? Dude, read the DJ Bible! There's no such thing as a girl that's out of your league.
WTF? Mr. Confidence is making sense? WTF?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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