"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anyone have an idea of how to talk to women in gym?

zennon

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It's a different situation from other social settings because they're there to work out, so I can't just walk up to them while theyre on a treadmill and start talking tot hem. Plus they're often insecure about the way they look because they've dressed down, so I doubt they will make a move on me anytime soon.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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oneboy21

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Do a regular talk, don't creep them out
Try as much less as you can.
Make them friends if possible, gym is not a good place to meet women
 

rea001

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You talk to them about their workout. Ask them what their goals are. Don't make it obvious that you've got a hardon for them. Just talk to them like another dude.
 

zennon

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I know its not a great place to pick up women, but while I'm there I might as well try.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think in that case, just look good and keep an eye out for buying signals. If she holds eye contact and smiles, move in. But most have headphones, are sweaty and angry. It's a masculine thing. And there's nothing more pathetic than "Gym couples".
 

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I've recently met a girl from gym, its a great place to meet girls...
Just look for interests, look at her, smile if she smiles back your in, go talk to her..

I just kept doing my workout at the gym as normal, i noticed she would move to my area, or close to my work out area, to me this seems like she wanted me to make a move. I did.. bang, got a number, the week after was on a date.

that date went well, was last night actually :D

First thing i said was "how many sets you have left on that"
 

blueline

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It's like talking to women anywhere. If they're into you, they will linger around and seem much friendlier than women usually are with you. What you talk about doesn't really matter so long as the girl is physically attracted to you at first sight.
 
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