It's a different situation from other social settings because they're there to work out, so I can't just walk up to them while theyre on a treadmill and start talking tot hem. Plus they're often insecure about the way they look because they've dressed down, so I doubt they will make a move on me anytime soon.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Anyone have an idea of how to talk to women in gym?
- Thread starter zennon
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
oneboy21
Senior Don Juan
Do a regular talk, don't creep them out
Try as much less as you can.
Make them friends if possible, gym is not a good place to meet women
Try as much less as you can.
Make them friends if possible, gym is not a good place to meet women
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I think in that case, just look good and keep an eye out for buying signals. If she holds eye contact and smiles, move in. But most have headphones, are sweaty and angry. It's a masculine thing. And there's nothing more pathetic than "Gym couples".
I've recently met a girl from gym, its a great place to meet girls...
Just look for interests, look at her, smile if she smiles back your in, go talk to her..
I just kept doing my workout at the gym as normal, i noticed she would move to my area, or close to my work out area, to me this seems like she wanted me to make a move. I did.. bang, got a number, the week after was on a date.
that date went well, was last night actually
First thing i said was "how many sets you have left on that"
Just look for interests, look at her, smile if she smiles back your in, go talk to her..
I just kept doing my workout at the gym as normal, i noticed she would move to my area, or close to my work out area, to me this seems like she wanted me to make a move. I did.. bang, got a number, the week after was on a date.
that date went well, was last night actually
First thing i said was "how many sets you have left on that"
It's like talking to women anywhere. If they're into you, they will linger around and seem much friendlier than women usually are with you. What you talk about doesn't really matter so long as the girl is physically attracted to you at first sight.