It's a different situation from other social settings because they're there to work out, so I can't just walk up to them while theyre on a treadmill and start talking tot hem. Plus they're often insecure about the way they look because they've dressed down, so I doubt they will make a move on me anytime soon.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Anyone have an idea of how to talk to women in gym?
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Do a regular talk, don't creep them out
Try as much less as you can.
Make them friends if possible, gym is not a good place to meet women
Try as much less as you can.
Make them friends if possible, gym is not a good place to meet women
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I think in that case, just look good and keep an eye out for buying signals. If she holds eye contact and smiles, move in. But most have headphones, are sweaty and angry. It's a masculine thing. And there's nothing more pathetic than "Gym couples".
I've recently met a girl from gym, its a great place to meet girls...
Just look for interests, look at her, smile if she smiles back your in, go talk to her..
I just kept doing my workout at the gym as normal, i noticed she would move to my area, or close to my work out area, to me this seems like she wanted me to make a move. I did.. bang, got a number, the week after was on a date.
that date went well, was last night actually
First thing i said was "how many sets you have left on that"
Just look for interests, look at her, smile if she smiles back your in, go talk to her..
I just kept doing my workout at the gym as normal, i noticed she would move to my area, or close to my work out area, to me this seems like she wanted me to make a move. I did.. bang, got a number, the week after was on a date.
that date went well, was last night actually
First thing i said was "how many sets you have left on that"
It's like talking to women anywhere. If they're into you, they will linger around and seem much friendlier than women usually are with you. What you talk about doesn't really matter so long as the girl is physically attracted to you at first sight.