"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone get many winks on dating sites?

Magnatolia

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Hey All,

I sign up to a few dating sites but don't really put a whole lot of effort into my profile although I do put some basic details. Usually I don't get any responses.

But my profile is on www.true.com and I seem to be getting on average 1 wink every 1-2 days. Some of them don't have good looks but a few I'd rate as 6-8. I don't have the ability to send messages - free account.

About 5 msgs a month. Seems a little low?

Is this a pretty good level of responses?

Thanks
J
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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syemour

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who really gives a **** about how many winks and shinks you get on this site?
Not me, or the guys,gals, and tranny's posting below me(im pc, dont want anyone to be offended-dont want to get sued).

Anywho, how many of these people are you metting? Do you feel good at night becuase you have gotten another wink on your profile?

Take it to the next level and meet up with some people.

Man up.
 

Viktor

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Try www.okcupid.com It's a free site, so why not.

The only qustion I have about it is whether it's run by the CIA to find out absolutely everything about you!
 

Archaxis

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Magnatolia said:
Hey All,

I sign up to a few dating sites but don't really put a whole lot of effort into my profile although I do put some basic details. Usually I don't get any responses.

But my profile is on www.true.com and I seem to be getting on average 1 wink every 1-2 days. Some of them don't have good looks but a few I'd rate as 6-8. I don't have the ability to send messages - free account.

About 5 msgs a month. Seems a little low?

Is this a pretty good level of responses?

Thanks
J
True is statistically, a giant sausage-fest. In fact, all the major sites except E-Harmony have a HUGE male bias... and then E-Harmony is geared more towards older, more desperate people looking to find the "right person" and is hardly for the younger male "shopping around"... and it's a rip off. I did have a profile on True for a short peroid of time, and in one week got a barrage of winks (15 to 20) day... and every SINGLE came from a female's profile with NO pic (internet trasnlation = chubby/fugly)... so I pretty much canceled the account. Okcupid sucks too... I've had a profile up there for months and gotten no inquiries... much like on Myspace. They simply suck, and aren't places girls are looking for guys without a bunch of BS work.
 

dereklearnslow

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I think that site has an option where you can have winks automatically sent to people who fit your posted standards and requirements. I could be wrong though.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Suckaazzclown

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**** online dating.

That's just being a *****.

Go out there in the real world, son.
 
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