"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone get many winks on dating sites?

Magnatolia

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Hey All,

I sign up to a few dating sites but don't really put a whole lot of effort into my profile although I do put some basic details. Usually I don't get any responses.

But my profile is on www.true.com and I seem to be getting on average 1 wink every 1-2 days. Some of them don't have good looks but a few I'd rate as 6-8. I don't have the ability to send messages - free account.

About 5 msgs a month. Seems a little low?

Is this a pretty good level of responses?

Thanks
J
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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syemour

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who really gives a **** about how many winks and shinks you get on this site?
Not me, or the guys,gals, and tranny's posting below me(im pc, dont want anyone to be offended-dont want to get sued).

Anywho, how many of these people are you metting? Do you feel good at night becuase you have gotten another wink on your profile?

Take it to the next level and meet up with some people.

Man up.
 

Viktor

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Try www.okcupid.com It's a free site, so why not.

The only qustion I have about it is whether it's run by the CIA to find out absolutely everything about you!
 

Archaxis

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Magnatolia said:
Hey All,

I sign up to a few dating sites but don't really put a whole lot of effort into my profile although I do put some basic details. Usually I don't get any responses.

But my profile is on www.true.com and I seem to be getting on average 1 wink every 1-2 days. Some of them don't have good looks but a few I'd rate as 6-8. I don't have the ability to send messages - free account.

About 5 msgs a month. Seems a little low?

Is this a pretty good level of responses?

Thanks
J
True is statistically, a giant sausage-fest. In fact, all the major sites except E-Harmony have a HUGE male bias... and then E-Harmony is geared more towards older, more desperate people looking to find the "right person" and is hardly for the younger male "shopping around"... and it's a rip off. I did have a profile on True for a short peroid of time, and in one week got a barrage of winks (15 to 20) day... and every SINGLE came from a female's profile with NO pic (internet trasnlation = chubby/fugly)... so I pretty much canceled the account. Okcupid sucks too... I've had a profile up there for months and gotten no inquiries... much like on Myspace. They simply suck, and aren't places girls are looking for guys without a bunch of BS work.
 

dereklearnslow

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I think that site has an option where you can have winks automatically sent to people who fit your posted standards and requirements. I could be wrong though.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Suckaazzclown

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**** online dating.

That's just being a *****.

Go out there in the real world, son.
 
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