"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anyone get many winks on dating sites?

Magnatolia

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Hey All,

I sign up to a few dating sites but don't really put a whole lot of effort into my profile although I do put some basic details. Usually I don't get any responses.

But my profile is on www.true.com and I seem to be getting on average 1 wink every 1-2 days. Some of them don't have good looks but a few I'd rate as 6-8. I don't have the ability to send messages - free account.

About 5 msgs a month. Seems a little low?

Is this a pretty good level of responses?

Thanks
J
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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syemour

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who really gives a **** about how many winks and shinks you get on this site?
Not me, or the guys,gals, and tranny's posting below me(im pc, dont want anyone to be offended-dont want to get sued).

Anywho, how many of these people are you metting? Do you feel good at night becuase you have gotten another wink on your profile?

Take it to the next level and meet up with some people.

Man up.
 

Viktor

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Try www.okcupid.com It's a free site, so why not.

The only qustion I have about it is whether it's run by the CIA to find out absolutely everything about you!
 

Archaxis

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Magnatolia said:
Hey All,

I sign up to a few dating sites but don't really put a whole lot of effort into my profile although I do put some basic details. Usually I don't get any responses.

But my profile is on www.true.com and I seem to be getting on average 1 wink every 1-2 days. Some of them don't have good looks but a few I'd rate as 6-8. I don't have the ability to send messages - free account.

About 5 msgs a month. Seems a little low?

Is this a pretty good level of responses?

Thanks
J
True is statistically, a giant sausage-fest. In fact, all the major sites except E-Harmony have a HUGE male bias... and then E-Harmony is geared more towards older, more desperate people looking to find the "right person" and is hardly for the younger male "shopping around"... and it's a rip off. I did have a profile on True for a short peroid of time, and in one week got a barrage of winks (15 to 20) day... and every SINGLE came from a female's profile with NO pic (internet trasnlation = chubby/fugly)... so I pretty much canceled the account. Okcupid sucks too... I've had a profile up there for months and gotten no inquiries... much like on Myspace. They simply suck, and aren't places girls are looking for guys without a bunch of BS work.
 

dereklearnslow

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I think that site has an option where you can have winks automatically sent to people who fit your posted standards and requirements. I could be wrong though.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Suckaazzclown

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**** online dating.

That's just being a *****.

Go out there in the real world, son.
 
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