"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Anyone get many winks on dating sites?

Magnatolia

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Hey All,

I sign up to a few dating sites but don't really put a whole lot of effort into my profile although I do put some basic details. Usually I don't get any responses.

But my profile is on www.true.com and I seem to be getting on average 1 wink every 1-2 days. Some of them don't have good looks but a few I'd rate as 6-8. I don't have the ability to send messages - free account.

About 5 msgs a month. Seems a little low?

Is this a pretty good level of responses?

Thanks
J
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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syemour

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who really gives a **** about how many winks and shinks you get on this site?
Not me, or the guys,gals, and tranny's posting below me(im pc, dont want anyone to be offended-dont want to get sued).

Anywho, how many of these people are you metting? Do you feel good at night becuase you have gotten another wink on your profile?

Take it to the next level and meet up with some people.

Man up.
 

Viktor

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Try www.okcupid.com It's a free site, so why not.

The only qustion I have about it is whether it's run by the CIA to find out absolutely everything about you!
 

Archaxis

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Magnatolia said:
Hey All,

I sign up to a few dating sites but don't really put a whole lot of effort into my profile although I do put some basic details. Usually I don't get any responses.

But my profile is on www.true.com and I seem to be getting on average 1 wink every 1-2 days. Some of them don't have good looks but a few I'd rate as 6-8. I don't have the ability to send messages - free account.

About 5 msgs a month. Seems a little low?

Is this a pretty good level of responses?

Thanks
J
True is statistically, a giant sausage-fest. In fact, all the major sites except E-Harmony have a HUGE male bias... and then E-Harmony is geared more towards older, more desperate people looking to find the "right person" and is hardly for the younger male "shopping around"... and it's a rip off. I did have a profile on True for a short peroid of time, and in one week got a barrage of winks (15 to 20) day... and every SINGLE came from a female's profile with NO pic (internet trasnlation = chubby/fugly)... so I pretty much canceled the account. Okcupid sucks too... I've had a profile up there for months and gotten no inquiries... much like on Myspace. They simply suck, and aren't places girls are looking for guys without a bunch of BS work.
 

dereklearnslow

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I think that site has an option where you can have winks automatically sent to people who fit your posted standards and requirements. I could be wrong though.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Suckaazzclown

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**** online dating.

That's just being a *****.

Go out there in the real world, son.
 
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