Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Cloudtopsun2100 said:iranian b1tches are hot! if only I knew farsi....
yani chi?? bro you tryna find someone on this forum whose in tehran?? I doubt anyone is...i reside in SoCal.lyamdb said:haha its fun to know some persian guys are here! charm&style mokhlesim dadash. vali pas kasi az tehran nis na? yeah persian bytches are really hot!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Salam! I'm visiting Tehran this summer (June/July), so maybe we can hang. Yeah, I've never been, but I heard the scene over there is pretty nice for parties. Do you have AIM or Yahoo Messenger? I have a lot of friends/family there, so it will be very 'jaleb'lyamdb said:if anyone from tehran is here I'd love to get along. whatever you're into, you have subscribed here. so we have alot in common and maybe we can help each other out. esp if you like to work on your DJ skills.
Haha, good one.Charm&Style said:juss say "kos bedeh"
Cool! So there are some that are not really traditional/religious? I know 1 also, pretty cute too.PRMoon said:I'm seeing a persian girl. She's hot as hell and she's rich to boot. Can't beat that.
bro what part of tehran you at...im visiting in the summer too, most likely ill be in Valiasr or Shahrakeh Gharb(or however you say it lol) Anyways me and 10 or 12 of my close friends are rolling from california to tehran so we'll kick it for shure with you and attraction.lyamdb said:yeah bro I'm using yahoo messenger. my id is [email protected]
add me if you want. we can have some fun.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
man you comming here with 12 friends? COOL! :yes: that's really gonna be something aint it? Heck you'll have hell of fun! I live in Mirdamad which is close to Valiasr. Hey, Shahrake Gharb which you can simply call Shahrak is FUUUULL of chicks. Its just the right place!Charm&Style said:bro what part of tehran you at...im visiting in the summer too, most likely ill be in Valiasr or Shahrakeh Gharb(or however you say it lol) Anyways me and 10 or 12 of my close friends are rolling from california to tehran so we'll kick it for shure with you and attraction.
Thanks man. Here in Iran, its nice to notice that some people in US aren't really lured by the bad bad image projected by western media from our country. I know the government sucks but hey that's what the governments are really for isn't that?!thirtyplus said:I just want to say, as an American, that I and a huge number of other Americans are praying our President puts down the crack pipe and doesn't bomb your country. I think it is a beautiful country with a proud and beautiful people (especially the ladies) and an amazing history, and open hostilities between our two countries would be horrifying.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.