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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone find it easier to approach and talk to the better looking girls?

smithersonb11

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So something I'm noticing as I start approaching and being a lot more flirty in general; the better looking a girl is, the easier time I have talking to her. Obviously not true for all cases, but it seems to be how it is for me.

When I approach a good looking girl (8+) I'm getting all smiles and an actual fun conversation. When I approach not so good looking girls they're much more boring to talk to, and a lot of the time are straight up *****y to me. It's kind of a mind ****.

Also, now that I'm approaching and talking to a lot more girls always, my standards have gone up drastically. Not so much in looks, but personality. I've always had high standards when it comes to a girls looks, but so many lack personality it's ridiculous. Or maybe it's just shyness.

Anyways, to the point. Ugly girls reject me more than hot girls. Why?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mindgamez

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Because ugly girls don't believe in themselves! When you tell them that they're pretty, they don't believe it and they think it's a joke. They see life more negatively because they don't receive that acceptance from the guys as much. That's my theory.

And with pretty girls, the compliment is so much more sincere when it comes out because she actually is gorgeous! When she's ugly, you have to lie your ass off and it's not genuine.
 

smithersonb11

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Mindgamez said:
Because ugly girls don't believe in themselves! When you tell them that they're pretty, they don't believe it and they think it's a joke. They see life more negatively because they don't receive that acceptance from the guys as much. That's my theory.

And with pretty girls, the compliment is so much more sincere when it comes out because she actually is gorgeous! When she's ugly, you have to lie your ass off and it's not genuine.
I usually dont open with a compliment but I am very direct. Maybe the not-so-goodlooking ones just think I'm messing with them for fun, which I guess I kind of am, even with the better looking ones.
 

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Dude - this is so ****ing true. For me, it's easier to talk to hot ones because if you make a joke about them they know you're joking/can detect a flirty attitude. Ug hoes can't take insults lightly.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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from my limited experience, it depends on the gurl's personality. I find it fun to play and joke around with ugly girls.I dont flirt with them though. 8-10 gurls are a different breed. I constantly flirt with this fun and perfect 10, but shes taken. I fell in love with this 9.5 for some reason, but she was so quiet that i run out of things to say and i begin to get nervous. I asked her out but uughh, i got rejected T.T. idk but my standards for looks are extremely high
 
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