"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone find it easier to approach and talk to the better looking girls?

smithersonb11

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So something I'm noticing as I start approaching and being a lot more flirty in general; the better looking a girl is, the easier time I have talking to her. Obviously not true for all cases, but it seems to be how it is for me.

When I approach a good looking girl (8+) I'm getting all smiles and an actual fun conversation. When I approach not so good looking girls they're much more boring to talk to, and a lot of the time are straight up *****y to me. It's kind of a mind ****.

Also, now that I'm approaching and talking to a lot more girls always, my standards have gone up drastically. Not so much in looks, but personality. I've always had high standards when it comes to a girls looks, but so many lack personality it's ridiculous. Or maybe it's just shyness.

Anyways, to the point. Ugly girls reject me more than hot girls. Why?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mindgamez

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Because ugly girls don't believe in themselves! When you tell them that they're pretty, they don't believe it and they think it's a joke. They see life more negatively because they don't receive that acceptance from the guys as much. That's my theory.

And with pretty girls, the compliment is so much more sincere when it comes out because she actually is gorgeous! When she's ugly, you have to lie your ass off and it's not genuine.
 

smithersonb11

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Mindgamez said:
Because ugly girls don't believe in themselves! When you tell them that they're pretty, they don't believe it and they think it's a joke. They see life more negatively because they don't receive that acceptance from the guys as much. That's my theory.

And with pretty girls, the compliment is so much more sincere when it comes out because she actually is gorgeous! When she's ugly, you have to lie your ass off and it's not genuine.
I usually dont open with a compliment but I am very direct. Maybe the not-so-goodlooking ones just think I'm messing with them for fun, which I guess I kind of am, even with the better looking ones.
 

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Dude - this is so ****ing true. For me, it's easier to talk to hot ones because if you make a joke about them they know you're joking/can detect a flirty attitude. Ug hoes can't take insults lightly.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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from my limited experience, it depends on the gurl's personality. I find it fun to play and joke around with ugly girls.I dont flirt with them though. 8-10 gurls are a different breed. I constantly flirt with this fun and perfect 10, but shes taken. I fell in love with this 9.5 for some reason, but she was so quiet that i run out of things to say and i begin to get nervous. I asked her out but uughh, i got rejected T.T. idk but my standards for looks are extremely high
 
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