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Anyone find it easier to approach and talk to the better looking girls?

smithersonb11

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So something I'm noticing as I start approaching and being a lot more flirty in general; the better looking a girl is, the easier time I have talking to her. Obviously not true for all cases, but it seems to be how it is for me.

When I approach a good looking girl (8+) I'm getting all smiles and an actual fun conversation. When I approach not so good looking girls they're much more boring to talk to, and a lot of the time are straight up *****y to me. It's kind of a mind ****.

Also, now that I'm approaching and talking to a lot more girls always, my standards have gone up drastically. Not so much in looks, but personality. I've always had high standards when it comes to a girls looks, but so many lack personality it's ridiculous. Or maybe it's just shyness.

Anyways, to the point. Ugly girls reject me more than hot girls. Why?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Because ugly girls don't believe in themselves! When you tell them that they're pretty, they don't believe it and they think it's a joke. They see life more negatively because they don't receive that acceptance from the guys as much. That's my theory.

And with pretty girls, the compliment is so much more sincere when it comes out because she actually is gorgeous! When she's ugly, you have to lie your ass off and it's not genuine.
 

smithersonb11

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Mindgamez said:
Because ugly girls don't believe in themselves! When you tell them that they're pretty, they don't believe it and they think it's a joke. They see life more negatively because they don't receive that acceptance from the guys as much. That's my theory.

And with pretty girls, the compliment is so much more sincere when it comes out because she actually is gorgeous! When she's ugly, you have to lie your ass off and it's not genuine.
I usually dont open with a compliment but I am very direct. Maybe the not-so-goodlooking ones just think I'm messing with them for fun, which I guess I kind of am, even with the better looking ones.
 

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Dude - this is so ****ing true. For me, it's easier to talk to hot ones because if you make a joke about them they know you're joking/can detect a flirty attitude. Ug hoes can't take insults lightly.
 

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from my limited experience, it depends on the gurl's personality. I find it fun to play and joke around with ugly girls.I dont flirt with them though. 8-10 gurls are a different breed. I constantly flirt with this fun and perfect 10, but shes taken. I fell in love with this 9.5 for some reason, but she was so quiet that i run out of things to say and i begin to get nervous. I asked her out but uughh, i got rejected T.T. idk but my standards for looks are extremely high
 
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