BBX
Master Don Juan
Say to a girl you've always went to school with and be talking to her and all of a sudden say, "damn I had such a crush on you back in middle school". lol, it proubly will do nothing, but hey, just throwing it out there.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Anyone Ever Tried This?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
AlexParadox
Don Juan
haha nice idea, you already got me thinking to say it to this one chick at school....
Sebastien_Valmont
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In theory it's smart.
It establishes that she is attractive but referring to her in the past tense also shows that you're not into her any longer... or so she'll percieve.
A classic neg hit.
That however will only work if the girl is already into you, i've dropped it a few times at parties and it works only with the girls that I know are into me.
Maybe a good icebreaker for a girl that you haven't talked to in a while, but don't expect miracles.
It establishes that she is attractive but referring to her in the past tense also shows that you're not into her any longer... or so she'll percieve.
A classic neg hit.
That however will only work if the girl is already into you, i've dropped it a few times at parties and it works only with the girls that I know are into me.
Maybe a good icebreaker for a girl that you haven't talked to in a while, but don't expect miracles.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I tried this several times, sometimes it worked, sometimes it didn't...
But what I've realized is that telling her something like "Whoa, you looked so crazy in high school, I've always been frightened by you back then" in a sarcastic tone does wonders for you. Try it and see for yourself if you don't believe me.
But what I've realized is that telling her something like "Whoa, you looked so crazy in high school, I've always been frightened by you back then" in a sarcastic tone does wonders for you. Try it and see for yourself if you don't believe me.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
I wouldn't recommend using this line unless, like Sebastien_Valmont said, she's already into you.
Even if you know she is, use your DJ skills instead! Bust out some smooth talking! Make her laugh! Initiate some kino! If she doesn't respond well to any of this... do like the worst show on MTV and say, "NEXT!"
Outtie
Even if you know she is, use your DJ skills instead! Bust out some smooth talking! Make her laugh! Initiate some kino! If she doesn't respond well to any of this... do like the worst show on MTV and say, "NEXT!"
Outtie
I do remember a girl saying it to me once. At the time when she was interested in me I knew it, but I wasn't interested in her. After she said it to me I became interested in her but she wasn't interested in me (maybe she was but I was an AFC and didn't make a move). :crazy:Ganji said:It's a girl move.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
A girl once told me that she like me since I was in the Elementary....what is wrong with that? we were in Freaking high sschool man.....I wanted to run as fast as I could....I dont like that sh!t...Is creepy to me..I run faster when an ugly chick tells me that...the chick I see her as ****ing Friend that I can fool around and stuff but nothing else....