"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anyone Ever Tried This?

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Say to a girl you've always went to school with and be talking to her and all of a sudden say, "damn I had such a crush on you back in middle school". lol, it proubly will do nothing, but hey, just throwing it out there.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It actually works... I remember saying something like that to a girl in junior high, and I ended up dating her for a bit... good way to hint that something is still there.
 
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In theory it's smart.

It establishes that she is attractive but referring to her in the past tense also shows that you're not into her any longer... or so she'll percieve.

A classic neg hit.

That however will only work if the girl is already into you, i've dropped it a few times at parties and it works only with the girls that I know are into me.

Maybe a good icebreaker for a girl that you haven't talked to in a while, but don't expect miracles.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I went on a date a couple months ago where I said this. I figured it couldn't do any harm. Not sure if it did anything though. We went on a couple more dates but then just kinda fizzled out
 

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It's a girl move. Or maybe a bunch of girls really liked me in the past (wtf happened to me now, I swear I'm better looking)
 

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I tried this several times, sometimes it worked, sometimes it didn't...
But what I've realized is that telling her something like "Whoa, you looked so crazy in high school, I've always been frightened by you back then" in a sarcastic tone does wonders for you. Try it and see for yourself if you don't believe me.
 

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I wouldn't recommend using this line unless, like Sebastien_Valmont said, she's already into you.

Even if you know she is, use your DJ skills instead! Bust out some smooth talking! Make her laugh! Initiate some kino! If she doesn't respond well to any of this... do like the worst show on MTV and say, "NEXT!"

Outtie
 

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Ganji said:
It's a girl move.
I do remember a girl saying it to me once. At the time when she was interested in me I knew it, but I wasn't interested in her. After she said it to me I became interested in her but she wasn't interested in me (maybe she was but I was an AFC and didn't make a move). :crazy:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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A girl once told me that she like me since I was in the Elementary....what is wrong with that? we were in Freaking high sschool man.....I wanted to run as fast as I could....I dont like that sh!t...Is creepy to me..I run faster when an ugly chick tells me that...the chick I see her as ****ing Friend that I can fool around and stuff but nothing else....
 
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