BBX
Master Don Juan
Say to a girl you've always went to school with and be talking to her and all of a sudden say, "damn I had such a crush on you back in middle school". lol, it proubly will do nothing, but hey, just throwing it out there.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
AlexParadox
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haha nice idea, you already got me thinking to say it to this one chick at school....
Sebastien_Valmont
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In theory it's smart.
It establishes that she is attractive but referring to her in the past tense also shows that you're not into her any longer... or so she'll percieve.
A classic neg hit.
That however will only work if the girl is already into you, i've dropped it a few times at parties and it works only with the girls that I know are into me.
Maybe a good icebreaker for a girl that you haven't talked to in a while, but don't expect miracles.
It establishes that she is attractive but referring to her in the past tense also shows that you're not into her any longer... or so she'll percieve.
A classic neg hit.
That however will only work if the girl is already into you, i've dropped it a few times at parties and it works only with the girls that I know are into me.
Maybe a good icebreaker for a girl that you haven't talked to in a while, but don't expect miracles.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I tried this several times, sometimes it worked, sometimes it didn't...
But what I've realized is that telling her something like "Whoa, you looked so crazy in high school, I've always been frightened by you back then" in a sarcastic tone does wonders for you. Try it and see for yourself if you don't believe me.
But what I've realized is that telling her something like "Whoa, you looked so crazy in high school, I've always been frightened by you back then" in a sarcastic tone does wonders for you. Try it and see for yourself if you don't believe me.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
I wouldn't recommend using this line unless, like Sebastien_Valmont said, she's already into you.
Even if you know she is, use your DJ skills instead! Bust out some smooth talking! Make her laugh! Initiate some kino! If she doesn't respond well to any of this... do like the worst show on MTV and say, "NEXT!"
Outtie
Even if you know she is, use your DJ skills instead! Bust out some smooth talking! Make her laugh! Initiate some kino! If she doesn't respond well to any of this... do like the worst show on MTV and say, "NEXT!"
Outtie
I do remember a girl saying it to me once. At the time when she was interested in me I knew it, but I wasn't interested in her. After she said it to me I became interested in her but she wasn't interested in me (maybe she was but I was an AFC and didn't make a move). :crazy:Ganji said:It's a girl move.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
A girl once told me that she like me since I was in the Elementary....what is wrong with that? we were in Freaking high sschool man.....I wanted to run as fast as I could....I dont like that sh!t...Is creepy to me..I run faster when an ugly chick tells me that...the chick I see her as ****ing Friend that I can fool around and stuff but nothing else....