BBX
Master Don Juan
Say to a girl you've always went to school with and be talking to her and all of a sudden say, "damn I had such a crush on you back in middle school". lol, it proubly will do nothing, but hey, just throwing it out there.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
AlexParadox
Don Juan
haha nice idea, you already got me thinking to say it to this one chick at school....
Sebastien_Valmont
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In theory it's smart.
It establishes that she is attractive but referring to her in the past tense also shows that you're not into her any longer... or so she'll percieve.
A classic neg hit.
That however will only work if the girl is already into you, i've dropped it a few times at parties and it works only with the girls that I know are into me.
Maybe a good icebreaker for a girl that you haven't talked to in a while, but don't expect miracles.
It establishes that she is attractive but referring to her in the past tense also shows that you're not into her any longer... or so she'll percieve.
A classic neg hit.
That however will only work if the girl is already into you, i've dropped it a few times at parties and it works only with the girls that I know are into me.
Maybe a good icebreaker for a girl that you haven't talked to in a while, but don't expect miracles.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I tried this several times, sometimes it worked, sometimes it didn't...
But what I've realized is that telling her something like "Whoa, you looked so crazy in high school, I've always been frightened by you back then" in a sarcastic tone does wonders for you. Try it and see for yourself if you don't believe me.
But what I've realized is that telling her something like "Whoa, you looked so crazy in high school, I've always been frightened by you back then" in a sarcastic tone does wonders for you. Try it and see for yourself if you don't believe me.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
I wouldn't recommend using this line unless, like Sebastien_Valmont said, she's already into you.
Even if you know she is, use your DJ skills instead! Bust out some smooth talking! Make her laugh! Initiate some kino! If she doesn't respond well to any of this... do like the worst show on MTV and say, "NEXT!"
Outtie
Even if you know she is, use your DJ skills instead! Bust out some smooth talking! Make her laugh! Initiate some kino! If she doesn't respond well to any of this... do like the worst show on MTV and say, "NEXT!"
Outtie
I do remember a girl saying it to me once. At the time when she was interested in me I knew it, but I wasn't interested in her. After she said it to me I became interested in her but she wasn't interested in me (maybe she was but I was an AFC and didn't make a move). :crazy:Ganji said:It's a girl move.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
A girl once told me that she like me since I was in the Elementary....what is wrong with that? we were in Freaking high sschool man.....I wanted to run as fast as I could....I dont like that sh!t...Is creepy to me..I run faster when an ugly chick tells me that...the chick I see her as ****ing Friend that I can fool around and stuff but nothing else....