"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone ever tried giving a compliment then walking away?

Eph

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Just straight up walk to a girl, give her a compliment (something like,"I like your shoes", "cool shirt", i.e nothing about her looks), and then walking away before she even has time to respond.
This is probably the hundredth time I've seen this episode of Drake & Josh (the episode where they have the bet to see who can get more dates; great old show if you haven't seen it), and I was wondering if this would actually work. Has anyone ever tried this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I would say probably...would set you apart from the other lame dudes that try and stand there and compliment her to death...
 

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Yeah, but you're WALKING AWAY.

Thats ending the interaction.

Unless you're super good looking+they're super desperate then No it wont make them chase after you if thats what you're asking.
 

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All of those which I know doing this got nothing except those who were so goodlooking that they would have get the girl even by puking on her shoes.

I think this "technique" frame the interaction as either:

1)I like you but I dont have the gut to follow through so I leave the ball to you

2)I wanna play the cool guy by doint something I saw in a movie

The only sure thing is boosting her ego, not because of the compliment but because you in a way or an other were hitting on her.
 

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I did it on friday to my classmate, as I was passing by I said that she has a great dress and that she looks like a princess, but I knew we were going to talk later that evening. Though it was definitely a good move, combined with me dancing with her later, kinoing her and eye contact I could've got at least a makeout from her, even though she has a BF.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When I'm at big concerts (ie Warped Tour, Extreme Thing etc..) or even at the strip in Vegas, I generally have a tendency to scream out "You're hot!", to any hot girl that walks by. Does it make me look like a jack@ss, sometimes, yes, but hey, I'm in a city where nobody knows me and could really give a sh!t. Have I gotten laid, meet-ups, and phone numbers by doing this? You bet your ass.

-Scars
 
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