"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone ever tried giving a compliment then walking away?

Eph

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Just straight up walk to a girl, give her a compliment (something like,"I like your shoes", "cool shirt", i.e nothing about her looks), and then walking away before she even has time to respond.
This is probably the hundredth time I've seen this episode of Drake & Josh (the episode where they have the bet to see who can get more dates; great old show if you haven't seen it), and I was wondering if this would actually work. Has anyone ever tried this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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marmel75

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I would say probably...would set you apart from the other lame dudes that try and stand there and compliment her to death...
 

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Yeah, but you're WALKING AWAY.

Thats ending the interaction.

Unless you're super good looking+they're super desperate then No it wont make them chase after you if thats what you're asking.
 

Who Dares Win

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All of those which I know doing this got nothing except those who were so goodlooking that they would have get the girl even by puking on her shoes.

I think this "technique" frame the interaction as either:

1)I like you but I dont have the gut to follow through so I leave the ball to you

2)I wanna play the cool guy by doint something I saw in a movie

The only sure thing is boosting her ego, not because of the compliment but because you in a way or an other were hitting on her.
 

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I did it on friday to my classmate, as I was passing by I said that she has a great dress and that she looks like a princess, but I knew we were going to talk later that evening. Though it was definitely a good move, combined with me dancing with her later, kinoing her and eye contact I could've got at least a makeout from her, even though she has a BF.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When I'm at big concerts (ie Warped Tour, Extreme Thing etc..) or even at the strip in Vegas, I generally have a tendency to scream out "You're hot!", to any hot girl that walks by. Does it make me look like a jack@ss, sometimes, yes, but hey, I'm in a city where nobody knows me and could really give a sh!t. Have I gotten laid, meet-ups, and phone numbers by doing this? You bet your ass.

-Scars
 
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