"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anyone Ever Sneak Into Trendy Hotel for a Date...?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I use to do that all the time in college. There was a hotel in Chicago that had tons of meeting rooms and halls which the never locked. A date and I would hunt for a different room each weekend and throw down with the possibility of having one of the staff walking in. Once someone did while we were on the stage in a ballroom, we just hid behind the curtains until they left. Good times! :D
 

diplomatic_lies

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I used to do this in high school, but nowadays most hotels have security card access with specific validity times. You can't even go into the inner lobby without a valid card!

Good times!
 
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