INXS
Don Juan
So I read an article that suggested sneaking into a trendy hotel as a cheap date idea. This sounds like it would be fun. Anyone ever do this? Have any pointers? Ideas to make this work? suggestions?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Anyone Ever Sneak Into Trendy Hotel for a Date...?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I use to do that all the time in college. There was a hotel in Chicago that had tons of meeting rooms and halls which the never locked. A date and I would hunt for a different room each weekend and throw down with the possibility of having one of the staff walking in. Once someone did while we were on the stage in a ballroom, we just hid behind the curtains until they left. Good times! 
diplomatic_lies
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I used to do this in high school, but nowadays most hotels have security card access with specific validity times. You can't even go into the inner lobby without a valid card!
Good times!
Good times!