RichardTheFrog
Banned
Either replying to women's ads or creating your own?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Horse sh*t.There is no such thing as luck. Some people are just better at certain things that most guys are horrible at.
Okay... Then "success" on Craigslist.There is no such thing as luck. Some people are just better at certain things that most guys are horrible at.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Got to pay to play. I couldn't count on two hands the number of times my aunt would jackpot for over 10k at the casino. Come to find out she had embezzled close to a quarter of a mill over the years from the law firm she worked at. Not saying that some people don't just luck out and find the golden goose from time to time, but i know way more that's lost their a$$ chasing it.Horse sh*t.
Luck is real. Winning the lottery is pure luck.
But if the odds were 1 in 1,000,000 or however many number combinations of whichever lotto you are playing, buying two lotto tickets would increase your odds to 2 in 1,000,000. You could essentially spend a million dollars and guarantee a winning ticket, but it happens quite often that several people end up with winning tickets and splitting the jackpot. You would have better luck hoping that no one else chose the same numbers.Winning the lottery is just a mathematical probability coming to pass at that moment.
The odds of your numbers coming up have nothing to do with how many tickets you have. Each group of numbers has a probability attached to it. The fact that you'd waste your money on 999,999 losing entries doesn't change the probability of any one set of numbers.But if the odds were 1 in 1,000,000 or however many number combinations of whichever lotto you are playing, buying two lotto tickets would increase your odds to 2 in 1,000,000. You could essentially spend a million dollars and guarantee a winning ticket, but it happens quite often that several people end up with winning tickets and splitting the jackpot. You would have better luck hoping that no one else chose the same numbers.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Once again, making it about probability and nothing else. By maximizing the most possibilities you ensure the highest probability. What part of that is debatable?It does if you buy every combination. There are 292,201,338 possible Powerball combos. If one wanted to buy every number combination possible, one of those tickets would be a winning ticket.
Losing is bad luck and winning is good luck.Got to pay to play. I couldn't count on two hands the number of times my aunt would jackpot for over 10k at the casino. Come to find out she had embezzled close to a quarter of a mill over the years from the law firm she worked at. Not saying that some people don't just luck out and find the golden goose from time to time, but i know way more that's lost their a$$ chasing it.
I don't disagree that it's not. I just think you can make your own luck also.Losing is bad luck and winning is good luck.
Luck is still a factor.
So luck is real.
Luck with numbers is luck, probability, statistics.Luck is still a factor.
So luck is real.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Agreed.Luck with numbers is luck, probability, statistics.
Anything involving people is more than just luck.
or luck defined as preparation meeting opportunity.
Apply probabilistic luck on craigslist would be sending a randomly generated message out, like choosing quick picks. Or sending the same message out, like playing the same numbers every week.
Applying human luck (preparation meeting opportunity) would be to vary your message based on the responses you get, using a human feedback system to keep improving your odds.
When people refer to "luck" when meeting people for romance and sex, they generally mean going somewhere and lucking out on having a "target rich environment" where they maybe didn't expect it before. But that's where the luck ends and the skills begin.
Or they manage to get laid, without having any idea how, and say they "got lucky."
Even this kind of "luck" is dependent on actually having an interesting enough personality to take you from the first conversation to the bedroom.
Which of course, is also based on luck from a genetic standpoint, but is also based on using your genetics to develop an actual personality that people enjoy interacting with.
That part, of having a personality that people actually enjoy interacting with, is not helped by luck, unfortunately.
Yea I've had the same problem. Even with the girls who claim to be looking for free.Lol why did this thread turn into a probability lesson?
I've had success on CL. It only cost me $200.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.