RichardTheFrog
Banned
Either replying to women's ads or creating your own?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Horse sh*t.There is no such thing as luck. Some people are just better at certain things that most guys are horrible at.
Okay... Then "success" on Craigslist.There is no such thing as luck. Some people are just better at certain things that most guys are horrible at.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Got to pay to play. I couldn't count on two hands the number of times my aunt would jackpot for over 10k at the casino. Come to find out she had embezzled close to a quarter of a mill over the years from the law firm she worked at. Not saying that some people don't just luck out and find the golden goose from time to time, but i know way more that's lost their a$$ chasing it.Horse sh*t.
Luck is real. Winning the lottery is pure luck.
But if the odds were 1 in 1,000,000 or however many number combinations of whichever lotto you are playing, buying two lotto tickets would increase your odds to 2 in 1,000,000. You could essentially spend a million dollars and guarantee a winning ticket, but it happens quite often that several people end up with winning tickets and splitting the jackpot. You would have better luck hoping that no one else chose the same numbers.Winning the lottery is just a mathematical probability coming to pass at that moment.
The odds of your numbers coming up have nothing to do with how many tickets you have. Each group of numbers has a probability attached to it. The fact that you'd waste your money on 999,999 losing entries doesn't change the probability of any one set of numbers.But if the odds were 1 in 1,000,000 or however many number combinations of whichever lotto you are playing, buying two lotto tickets would increase your odds to 2 in 1,000,000. You could essentially spend a million dollars and guarantee a winning ticket, but it happens quite often that several people end up with winning tickets and splitting the jackpot. You would have better luck hoping that no one else chose the same numbers.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Once again, making it about probability and nothing else. By maximizing the most possibilities you ensure the highest probability. What part of that is debatable?It does if you buy every combination. There are 292,201,338 possible Powerball combos. If one wanted to buy every number combination possible, one of those tickets would be a winning ticket.
Losing is bad luck and winning is good luck.Got to pay to play. I couldn't count on two hands the number of times my aunt would jackpot for over 10k at the casino. Come to find out she had embezzled close to a quarter of a mill over the years from the law firm she worked at. Not saying that some people don't just luck out and find the golden goose from time to time, but i know way more that's lost their a$$ chasing it.
I don't disagree that it's not. I just think you can make your own luck also.Losing is bad luck and winning is good luck.
Luck is still a factor.
So luck is real.
Luck with numbers is luck, probability, statistics.Luck is still a factor.
So luck is real.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Agreed.Luck with numbers is luck, probability, statistics.
Anything involving people is more than just luck.
or luck defined as preparation meeting opportunity.
Apply probabilistic luck on craigslist would be sending a randomly generated message out, like choosing quick picks. Or sending the same message out, like playing the same numbers every week.
Applying human luck (preparation meeting opportunity) would be to vary your message based on the responses you get, using a human feedback system to keep improving your odds.
When people refer to "luck" when meeting people for romance and sex, they generally mean going somewhere and lucking out on having a "target rich environment" where they maybe didn't expect it before. But that's where the luck ends and the skills begin.
Or they manage to get laid, without having any idea how, and say they "got lucky."
Even this kind of "luck" is dependent on actually having an interesting enough personality to take you from the first conversation to the bedroom.
Which of course, is also based on luck from a genetic standpoint, but is also based on using your genetics to develop an actual personality that people enjoy interacting with.
That part, of having a personality that people actually enjoy interacting with, is not helped by luck, unfortunately.
Yea I've had the same problem. Even with the girls who claim to be looking for free.Lol why did this thread turn into a probability lesson?
I've had success on CL. It only cost me $200.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.