RichardTheFrog
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Either replying to women's ads or creating your own?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Horse sh*t.There is no such thing as luck. Some people are just better at certain things that most guys are horrible at.
Okay... Then "success" on Craigslist.There is no such thing as luck. Some people are just better at certain things that most guys are horrible at.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Got to pay to play. I couldn't count on two hands the number of times my aunt would jackpot for over 10k at the casino. Come to find out she had embezzled close to a quarter of a mill over the years from the law firm she worked at. Not saying that some people don't just luck out and find the golden goose from time to time, but i know way more that's lost their a$$ chasing it.Horse sh*t.
Luck is real. Winning the lottery is pure luck.
But if the odds were 1 in 1,000,000 or however many number combinations of whichever lotto you are playing, buying two lotto tickets would increase your odds to 2 in 1,000,000. You could essentially spend a million dollars and guarantee a winning ticket, but it happens quite often that several people end up with winning tickets and splitting the jackpot. You would have better luck hoping that no one else chose the same numbers.Winning the lottery is just a mathematical probability coming to pass at that moment.
The odds of your numbers coming up have nothing to do with how many tickets you have. Each group of numbers has a probability attached to it. The fact that you'd waste your money on 999,999 losing entries doesn't change the probability of any one set of numbers.But if the odds were 1 in 1,000,000 or however many number combinations of whichever lotto you are playing, buying two lotto tickets would increase your odds to 2 in 1,000,000. You could essentially spend a million dollars and guarantee a winning ticket, but it happens quite often that several people end up with winning tickets and splitting the jackpot. You would have better luck hoping that no one else chose the same numbers.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Once again, making it about probability and nothing else. By maximizing the most possibilities you ensure the highest probability. What part of that is debatable?It does if you buy every combination. There are 292,201,338 possible Powerball combos. If one wanted to buy every number combination possible, one of those tickets would be a winning ticket.
Losing is bad luck and winning is good luck.Got to pay to play. I couldn't count on two hands the number of times my aunt would jackpot for over 10k at the casino. Come to find out she had embezzled close to a quarter of a mill over the years from the law firm she worked at. Not saying that some people don't just luck out and find the golden goose from time to time, but i know way more that's lost their a$$ chasing it.
I don't disagree that it's not. I just think you can make your own luck also.Losing is bad luck and winning is good luck.
Luck is still a factor.
So luck is real.
Luck with numbers is luck, probability, statistics.Luck is still a factor.
So luck is real.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Agreed.Luck with numbers is luck, probability, statistics.
Anything involving people is more than just luck.
or luck defined as preparation meeting opportunity.
Apply probabilistic luck on craigslist would be sending a randomly generated message out, like choosing quick picks. Or sending the same message out, like playing the same numbers every week.
Applying human luck (preparation meeting opportunity) would be to vary your message based on the responses you get, using a human feedback system to keep improving your odds.
When people refer to "luck" when meeting people for romance and sex, they generally mean going somewhere and lucking out on having a "target rich environment" where they maybe didn't expect it before. But that's where the luck ends and the skills begin.
Or they manage to get laid, without having any idea how, and say they "got lucky."
Even this kind of "luck" is dependent on actually having an interesting enough personality to take you from the first conversation to the bedroom.
Which of course, is also based on luck from a genetic standpoint, but is also based on using your genetics to develop an actual personality that people enjoy interacting with.
That part, of having a personality that people actually enjoy interacting with, is not helped by luck, unfortunately.
Yea I've had the same problem. Even with the girls who claim to be looking for free.Lol why did this thread turn into a probability lesson?
I've had success on CL. It only cost me $200.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.