"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone ever date chicks in their building?

MikeYikes122

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So I was walking up the stairs to my apartment last night and noticed this gorgeous chick walking up to the apartment upstairs from me. She was like a 9.5 or a 10. She had blonde hair and was short, and luckily I like them like that.

Anyway, I'm thinking about picking up on her. Actually, I know I am going to pick up on her.

Though I still want some input. Have any of you ever dated or hooked up with a girl who lives in your apartment building? I'm sure there are a lot of cons, but there also has to be a decent amount of pros in the situation. I'm sure you see her a lot and don't have to worry about getting a hold of her on the phone.

Just looking for some input.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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As long as you can manage the relationship (time spent together) it can be pretty nice; unless you break up. Hopefully you live in a huge complex where it would be rare if you would cross paths.
 

Mr.Positive

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I once dated a gal that lived in the apartment direcly below me. She was probably the only solid 10 I've ever been with (she was a miss USA contestant). I was a major afc back then and we ended up breaking up after I moved out.

The only thing that made me uncomfortable was the lack of privacy. She knew everytime I as home, and when I was leaving. She could hear me walking around above her, and hear me taking the stairs down when I was leaving.
 
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