"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone ever date chicks in their building?

MikeYikes122

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So I was walking up the stairs to my apartment last night and noticed this gorgeous chick walking up to the apartment upstairs from me. She was like a 9.5 or a 10. She had blonde hair and was short, and luckily I like them like that.

Anyway, I'm thinking about picking up on her. Actually, I know I am going to pick up on her.

Though I still want some input. Have any of you ever dated or hooked up with a girl who lives in your apartment building? I'm sure there are a lot of cons, but there also has to be a decent amount of pros in the situation. I'm sure you see her a lot and don't have to worry about getting a hold of her on the phone.

Just looking for some input.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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As long as you can manage the relationship (time spent together) it can be pretty nice; unless you break up. Hopefully you live in a huge complex where it would be rare if you would cross paths.
 

Mr.Positive

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I once dated a gal that lived in the apartment direcly below me. She was probably the only solid 10 I've ever been with (she was a miss USA contestant). I was a major afc back then and we ended up breaking up after I moved out.

The only thing that made me uncomfortable was the lack of privacy. She knew everytime I as home, and when I was leaving. She could hear me walking around above her, and hear me taking the stairs down when I was leaving.
 
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