"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anyone ever date chicks in their building?

MikeYikes122

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So I was walking up the stairs to my apartment last night and noticed this gorgeous chick walking up to the apartment upstairs from me. She was like a 9.5 or a 10. She had blonde hair and was short, and luckily I like them like that.

Anyway, I'm thinking about picking up on her. Actually, I know I am going to pick up on her.

Though I still want some input. Have any of you ever dated or hooked up with a girl who lives in your apartment building? I'm sure there are a lot of cons, but there also has to be a decent amount of pros in the situation. I'm sure you see her a lot and don't have to worry about getting a hold of her on the phone.

Just looking for some input.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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As long as you can manage the relationship (time spent together) it can be pretty nice; unless you break up. Hopefully you live in a huge complex where it would be rare if you would cross paths.
 

Mr.Positive

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I once dated a gal that lived in the apartment direcly below me. She was probably the only solid 10 I've ever been with (she was a miss USA contestant). I was a major afc back then and we ended up breaking up after I moved out.

The only thing that made me uncomfortable was the lack of privacy. She knew everytime I as home, and when I was leaving. She could hear me walking around above her, and hear me taking the stairs down when I was leaving.
 
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