"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone ever date a Hair Stylist?

NatureGuy

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This question even seems a bit lame to me: I got a haircut with a new hairdresser recently. The first time she said nothing to me (never happened before with a hairdresser - it made me wonder if she was nervous around me...) The second time, we really hit if off and she was even playfully touching me (never happened before with a hairdresser) So now I'm wondering, is there any possiblity here or is this likely just her being friendly to a client ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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diablo

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To answer your question, yes, I've dated 3. I do warn you now to be very careful, though... don't let them know where you live. Especially if she has short hair.

Here's my story:

All 3 were stylists, all 3 had short hair, and all 3 were very petite (I don't go for average/larger girls...)

I replaced my windshield 3 times.

Once, it was broken with a beer bottle, the second time a brick, the last a baseball bat. 3 B's.

If it's more than just being friendly with a client, take things slow and don't let her find out that you aren't talking with anyone other than herself... :p
 

NatureGuy

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Thanks. I'm thinking probably it's client friendly, but I'll see what happens next time. Diablo: I understand what you're saying and I'll be keep it in mind.
 
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