"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Anyone ever date a Hair Stylist?

NatureGuy

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This question even seems a bit lame to me: I got a haircut with a new hairdresser recently. The first time she said nothing to me (never happened before with a hairdresser - it made me wonder if she was nervous around me...) The second time, we really hit if off and she was even playfully touching me (never happened before with a hairdresser) So now I'm wondering, is there any possiblity here or is this likely just her being friendly to a client ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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diablo

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To answer your question, yes, I've dated 3. I do warn you now to be very careful, though... don't let them know where you live. Especially if she has short hair.

Here's my story:

All 3 were stylists, all 3 had short hair, and all 3 were very petite (I don't go for average/larger girls...)

I replaced my windshield 3 times.

Once, it was broken with a beer bottle, the second time a brick, the last a baseball bat. 3 B's.

If it's more than just being friendly with a client, take things slow and don't let her find out that you aren't talking with anyone other than herself... :p
 

NatureGuy

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Thanks. I'm thinking probably it's client friendly, but I'll see what happens next time. Diablo: I understand what you're saying and I'll be keep it in mind.
 
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