"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone ever date a Hair Stylist?

NatureGuy

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This question even seems a bit lame to me: I got a haircut with a new hairdresser recently. The first time she said nothing to me (never happened before with a hairdresser - it made me wonder if she was nervous around me...) The second time, we really hit if off and she was even playfully touching me (never happened before with a hairdresser) So now I'm wondering, is there any possiblity here or is this likely just her being friendly to a client ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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diablo

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To answer your question, yes, I've dated 3. I do warn you now to be very careful, though... don't let them know where you live. Especially if she has short hair.

Here's my story:

All 3 were stylists, all 3 had short hair, and all 3 were very petite (I don't go for average/larger girls...)

I replaced my windshield 3 times.

Once, it was broken with a beer bottle, the second time a brick, the last a baseball bat. 3 B's.

If it's more than just being friendly with a client, take things slow and don't let her find out that you aren't talking with anyone other than herself... :p
 

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Thanks. I'm thinking probably it's client friendly, but I'll see what happens next time. Diablo: I understand what you're saying and I'll be keep it in mind.
 
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