"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone else thinks women come to you only when you dont need them

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captain55 said:
Impossible to answer every chick is different. Some women like to be confidently pursued (not chased), some women get off to being ignored, some women are feminists and want a beta they can control so they may like a guy being desperate af. The only rule to this game is to have fun with it, pursuing women should be fun.
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It’s anything but fun. It’s bull**** 99% of the time and life is too short for bull****.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Robert28 said:
It’s anything but fun. It’s bull**** 99% of the time and life is too short for bull****.
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You don’t have fun having drinks with your friends and chasing girls? I do.

If not that’s fine just use escorts plenty of men that goes this route and are happy
 
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As a man wanting love/companionship/obsessing over a woman is normal.... You can’t and won’t be able to fight this without a distraction. Tor me that is making money and spinning multiple plates...
 
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In my experience a woman with decent interest level will initiate. Even if she complies, submits, or has sex with you, it doesn't mean much. Her interest level depends on her initiating.
 
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