"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone else thinks women come to you only when you dont need them

Robert28

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Impossible to answer every chick is different. Some women like to be confidently pursued (not chased), some women get off to being ignored, some women are feminists and want a beta they can control so they may like a guy being desperate af. The only rule to this game is to have fun with it, pursuing women should be fun.
It’s anything but fun. It’s bull**** 99% of the time and life is too short for bull****.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It’s anything but fun. It’s bull**** 99% of the time and life is too short for bull****.
You don’t have fun having drinks with your friends and chasing girls? I do.

If not that’s fine just use escorts plenty of men that goes this route and are happy
 

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As a man wanting love/companionship/obsessing over a woman is normal.... You can’t and won’t be able to fight this without a distraction. Tor me that is making money and spinning multiple plates...
 

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In my experience a woman with decent interest level will initiate. Even if she complies, submits, or has sex with you, it doesn't mean much. Her interest level depends on her initiating.
 
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