“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Anyone else here not being shown any affection or love?

Hamurabimbi

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I was just thinking this the other day, I am so rarely shown affection or love by anyone. Last time a woman told me she loved me was over 5 years ago and that was a long distance thing with a mentally unwell woman - before that, I think it was 10 or more years ago. Affection is only shown to me by girlfriends (last one was a year ago).
was it 5 years ago or 1 year ago?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Women don’t love you the way you love them.

We are programmed to love her. She is programmed to love children.

where it’s difficult for men is when you’re down. There are very few who care.

its why we earn more and why we kill ourselves more frequently
Men who are not embraced by society, will burn it down to feel it's warmth.
 

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I probably have my own issues, but I can’t give a fvck about verbal affection or love.

Show me your love by supporting me in my life and following my lead. Everything else is irrelevant.
 

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I was just thinking this the other day, I am so rarely shown affection or love by anyone. Last time a woman told me she loved me was over 5 years ago and that was a long distance thing with a mentally unwell woman - before that, I think it was 10 or more years ago. Affection is only shown to me by girlfriends (last one was a year ago).
Nope...I need physical touch and I cannot be with someone who isn't into that as well...
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Been saying this forever. Not even your children love you unconditionally. If you want unconditional love get a dog.

The only unconditional love that exists is from a parent to a child. Definitely no such thing from a girlfriend/LTR/wife. Believing that there is is buying into the Disney fantasy.
 
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