"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Anyone else here just simply ASSUME that all girls like them?

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I do.

It really makes things easier, I don't have to look for IOIs or any of that garbage, I can focus on having more fun and not caring what she thinks of me because she's already attracted to me :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The difference between me and you is whilst I do believe I have the ability to attract any girl I got a big but which always seems to stop me from acting on my instincts
 
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Yea, i helps me to think that way too

not only does it build your confidence and make you stronger against rejection

often times to start to notice more IOI's.

often times girls you think might like you sometimes do actually like you. and you help that by being fun flirting with them showing that you like them too.
 
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That's a good frame to enter an interaction with. I never go into a conversation looking for IOIs or any sort of other cues, at least consciously. The idea is to make the interaction initially feel comfortable, light hearted, and then ultimately to gain enough rapport to close. How you approach almost always depends on three things:

1. The state/context of your environment
2. The frame of the woman you are approaching
3. Your direct objective of the interaction

Seduction is a process of modulating emotion into a state of attraction.
 
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