"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anyone else here feels like me? (in relation to female friends)

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Shivastorm_88

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Basically I have two female friends, friends to which I am really attached, that I see as sisters and that I would do everything in my power to help them and that I wouldn't trade for the world.

Then, I have a plethora of other female friends, but I just do not care about them. They could vanish away from my life and it wouldn't make a lick of a difference to me. To me, they are nothing but disposable material. By this, I mean they serve only to amuse me (I flirt with them, go out with them as a gang from time to time) and I would bang them if the occasion would present itself (on the contrary to my two real female friends) but that's as far as the relation goes with them.

Anyone else get this feeling from female friends/companions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KontrollerX

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I get that feeling with all aquaintance type of occasional hangout buddies.
 
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Shivastorm_88

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it's more then occasional friends. I get that feeling among girls of my very own "gang" of friends (minus the two I mentioned).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Sperminator

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I think lots of people are like this not just to female friends though. I have lots of male friends who I wouldn't really care if I hung out with them again. I know a lot of people but I only have a couple of really close friends.
 
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