"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anyone else here feels like me? (in relation to female friends)

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Shivastorm_88

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Basically I have two female friends, friends to which I am really attached, that I see as sisters and that I would do everything in my power to help them and that I wouldn't trade for the world.

Then, I have a plethora of other female friends, but I just do not care about them. They could vanish away from my life and it wouldn't make a lick of a difference to me. To me, they are nothing but disposable material. By this, I mean they serve only to amuse me (I flirt with them, go out with them as a gang from time to time) and I would bang them if the occasion would present itself (on the contrary to my two real female friends) but that's as far as the relation goes with them.

Anyone else get this feeling from female friends/companions?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I get that feeling with all aquaintance type of occasional hangout buddies.
 
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Shivastorm_88

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it's more then occasional friends. I get that feeling among girls of my very own "gang" of friends (minus the two I mentioned).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think lots of people are like this not just to female friends though. I have lots of male friends who I wouldn't really care if I hung out with them again. I know a lot of people but I only have a couple of really close friends.
 
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