"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EyeBRollin

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C'mon...Yeah Im just gonna go to another country, Get myself a mail away bride and have her take all my sh@t in 10 years...Sounds like a great plan..lol
The western ones will do that regardless. At least the mail order broads are fit and submissive. Your options here in the west are overweight, entitled broads that demand the world and give you nothing in return.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well it just dawned on me that he is finding less quality women...Perhaps thats why he had more dates because he is willing to settle more then I am..Like I said in my original post, Although it would be nice, Im not expecting Salma Hayek, I am expecting someone I find attractive though..I spent a number of years with a women I was less attracted to, Although she was a great person, I still felt dissatisfied, alone and unhappy..Im not making that mistake again...
I have a friend, age 55. He is alone, doesnt like it, doesnt get any action at the moment, but cant lower his entry level for a woman.
He is looking for "the woman that fascinates him" and didnt find THE ONE over the last 10 years. The ones he finds fascinating (in his imagination?) are not availlable to him.

I mean, i get it...... if we had the choice we all would rather have Salma Hayek. :D
Though for me, i have to say id rather settle with the pleasent 6 then with the annoying 10.

I told my friend to make a list what he REALLY wants/needs from a woman.

Coach RedPill made the point once that men need women only for 3 reasons:
*kids
*sex
*domestic comfort

I tend to agree with that list, for the rest a man has friends, pets, kids that do a way better job then women.


According to your reply to my posting you have your shiat more or less together. Depending on the area you live the drivers license might not be a problem and we all know women have a weakness for "badboys". ;)

What i suspect is that you are looking for the famous "oneitis" (THE ONE "fascinating" woman, for the "serious" relationship).
One thing i learned is that the sniper-mentality wasnt getting me the results i wanted. Be a machine gunner, enjoy the fruits and after a while you might hit something really good.
 

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The western ones will do that regardless. At least the mail order broads are fit and submissive. Your options here in the west are overweight, entitled broads that demand the world and give you nothing in return.
As long as the word "marriage" or any other agreement ot invite the state into the relationship is not involved, i´d agree to give it a try. At the current refugee/migrant-policies in the west there is no need for marriage anyway.
Everybody can come and stay.
 

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What age groups are you looking for OP? I'm 51, but I'm in shape, full head of hair, look younger, great job, clean record etc. I definitely keep myself busy enough from OLD, even though I'm in a rural area without a lot of prospects (I can go for days without ANYONE new showing up on Tinder, etc). I get most of my connections in the late-30s age range, a few in the late 20s. I get Likes from 40-somethings but most aren't acceptable. I don't look for anything over 45.
 

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Do you have a lot of experience dating older women? If so shame on you, Your 26 years old, You should be able to do better! Remember something, You are half my age..Do you think you are going to be as attractive or sort after when you are 53 years old? I highly doubt it.. I had plenty of women when I was younger then you and was actually married at 25 years old.. When you get to my age, I may be dead, If Im not, I'd like to have this conversation again with you to see how easy you think it is then...arrogance isnt a very attractive trait
You older can have your mature women, I don't date older women.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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