Me and girls my age just don't click for somereason most of my plates are 4 to 5 years older than me.. I'm 19.. I don't relate to women my age.. I don't care about aeropostle or holister or the ray jay show they annoy me.. anyone else have a similar problem?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
anyone else have better success with women older than them?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
War Against Betaism
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I've dated like two women that were way older than me, I didn't like it though, it was just a totally different game. What I liked though is that older women knew what they want, whereas women my age (19) are so damn undecisive.
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I can keep a older woman interested in me for 2 days and a younger woman interested in me for 2 hours. What's that saying to you guys?
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^ The point is that they seem to wait a while before rejecting me. Either way, I guess I'm not meant to get a girlfriend. Thankfully, I'm used to the ridicule and I've heard all the insults.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
the only interesting girls - one's that i'd consider dating exclusively - i've met who are my age (19) were the really driven ones (they know what they want) who are hilarious. all the other girls want to do is get drunk so they have an excuse for why they make bad decisions. they never want to make a decision if they don't have a type of "crutch" like alcohol. i've never dated older women, but i'd be willing to if i got the chance.
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Hey ol boy. this is nothing to be thankful for.nismo-4 said:
Those who face ridicule and insults have two options. Accept it, grow used to it, become uneffected by it. as you, "thankfully have". The other option is to Not Accept it, Use it to fuel the fire of self improvement, build a better you, move forward.
Seek inspiration. build determination. believe in yourself.
or believe that everything i just said was "gh3Y" and get no where.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
When I was 19, I lived with a 26 y/o. She wanted to get married, but I was smart enough not to.
At your age, older women still have novelty. When you reach your late 20's or so, you start seeing the effects of age in most women who are older than you. Then the novelty will wear off.
At your age, older women still have novelty. When you reach your late 20's or so, you start seeing the effects of age in most women who are older than you. Then the novelty will wear off.
Girls my age and me don't click because I have different worries in life than them. I'm not silver spoon fed and my relatives genuinely do nothing for me ( a 20 dollar loan here and there and a room to sleep in) I'm concerned with paying bills and stuff when these chicks my age seem to not have these issues.. which Is why I relate to women who are somewhat older than me.. I guess we have the same struggle.. and then even though I'm 19 I could easily pass for 24-25.. that doesn't help eithr..
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Well, good to see some others like me. I was beginning to think it was just me. I even posted about this problem a while back...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157467
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157467
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You may be new to this stuff, but I musta threw in the towel. Honestly, I barely go out these days, but under no circumstances should defeat be accepted.PerfectCircle said: