"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

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Anyone else finding politics in US are affecting relationships and friendships?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That’s not exactly true for the USA. It has moved to the left on social issues only. On the economic front, it has sharply gone towards the right.
I believe with the 2nd Amedment ruling and todays Roe v Wade ruling the pendulum has begun to swing back.
 

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All three branches of the federal government now have anti riot fences to keep out angry mobs. This is not a sign that they represent the will of the people.
It’s certainly a sign of the current state of political division with some advocating violence and a sense among many of my way entitlement …
 

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All three branches of the federal government now have anti riot fences to keep out angry mobs. This is not a sign that they represent the will of the people.
A large part of this is just due to the government wanting to milk the "january 6th insurrection" narrative for everything it's worth. But the USA no longer has a government of the people and for the people. They don't care if "fiery but mostly peaceful" riots take place in urban areas so long as they stay away from politicians.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The two opposite sides are not left vs right, it's collectivism vs individualism.
I think you could characterize the two sides in any number of ways.

The problem is that the "news" have just become liars and propagandists. I have def broken off friendships with people who use their soapbox to parrot media lies because talking to them is like talking to a wall. Like @Serenity said I'm very much willing to have a civil discussion with people, but I find that most of them now have irrational views that no amount of logic or evidence can penetrate.
What's interesting is that each side has its own news sources, and each side has its own version of the truth. Each side lives in its own reality. It's almost like two alternated dimensions living alongside each other in one.
 

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Both rulings contrary to public opinion polling.
Some public opinions are against those rulings yes, but the best court judges we have ruled the existing legal issues were not supported by the Constitution …
That’s a good enough reason for me to accept their reversal rulings.
 

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Both rulings contrary to public opinion polling.
But Constitutional as hell…

Again the power to make these decisions is handed back to the States - where (per the abject DESIGN of our Constitutional Republic) it belongs.

The Feds didn’t “outlaw” abortion, they simply decided it wasn’t in the fedguv’s purview. Just like gun ownership.

We might actually stand a chance in this country now…

p.s. polls can be manipulated- I can pay a pollster to generate whatever poll results I want - they’ll simply conduct it where it’ll give the results I want.
 

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Friendly reminder, the topic of this thread is politics affecting friendships and relationships. I see indications of too much politics and too little in the context of friendships and relationships.

I will lock the thread if the discussion wanders off into just politics. Stay on topic and the thread stays open.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The last 2 days have been awesome. It's my bday week too!
 

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Friendly reminder, the topic of this thread is politics affecting friendships and relationships. I see indications of too much politics and too little in the context of friendships and relationships.

I will lock the thread if the discussion wanders off into just politics. Stay on topic and the thread stays open.
 

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Friendly reminder, the topic of this thread is politics affecting friendships and relationships. I see indications of too much politics and too little in the context of friendships and relationships.
I'm the OP and thank you ^^^.

This thread is an interesting case study though in that even when OP (me) asks people in bold to "not get political i.e., red v blue" regarding a thread about politics affecting friendships -- it still evolves into a left vs right political discussion.

This thread has proven my point that it's almost impossible to have a discussion about politics without it reverting to red v blue warfare of varying degrees.

I'm not throwing shade on anyone, just making an observation.
 

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I’m neither red nor blue, (Pepsi or coke) - so don’t lump me in that morass.

I like seltzer water.
 
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I think you could characterize the two sides in any number of ways.


What's interesting is that each side has its own news sources, and each side has its own version of the truth. Each side lives in its own reality. It's almost like two alternated dimensions living alongside each other in one.
Except that there is no such thing as alternate realities. I'm not saying that one side of the news media system is right and the other is wrong, but wokeness isn't interested in truth, it's just interested in telling you what to think. And it doesn't deal with reality either. Men cannot be women, if anyone accepts that as true then they have bent the knee.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Except that there is no such thing as alternate realities. I'm not saying that one side of the news media system is right and the other is wrong, but wokeness isn't interested in truth, it's just interested in telling you what to think. And it doesn't deal with reality either. Men cannot be women, if anyone accepts that as true then they have bent the knee.
I agree with you, although I notice both sides accuse the other of telling them what to think (or do).
Regarding alternate realities, "create your own reality" has long been a thing in the manosphere and PUA theory. I know that's not the same as an alternate reality literally, but some people do get pretty metaphysical with it. Then there's all that stuff about how an observed atom acts differently than an unobserved atom. And having your own frame, what happens when frames collide? I'm just rambling, but it's like people really do live in their own realities.
 

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Myself I can deal with any politics as long as it's not advocating to remove my rights. I can have honest and friendly disagreements, no problem. No two people agree on anything. But again, if their politics involves making my life more difficult then they can drop off for all I care.
 

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I remember when I was a kid, before the Internet and social media. People kept their political views a secret. Secret ballot voting is a hard fought privilege. But now no one cares about their right to keep their political opinions to themselves.
 
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