"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone else feel wierd about # closing in a lecture hall?

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I always feel like I'll look like a fool # closing and getting rejected in a class.. I don't really care as much if its just me and her, but in class its like ahhh everyone will see and laugh and all that. Anyone else like this, howd you get over it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Its just one of those things that you have to shrug off and laugh about.
 
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I feel weird number closing in a cemetary or an execution chamber, but certainly not a lecture hall.
 
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nobody is going to laugh at u if u number close and dont get it. Most guys seeing this will look at u and think 'i wish i had the balls to do that. and the women will say : "i wish i could meet a confident guy like that'. Number close everywhere, except if ur at a funeral.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well a lecture hall isn't really a regular pickup scene for me. I think that anyone who is a sociable enough person won't rush things when it comes to gaming girls in your class. There are tons of oppurtunies to build rapport and when you have something going on in your life (Hopefully your trying to be a DJ and not just a PUA, then you'd have a life) just ask if she'd like to come along. That's not too embarrassing to do, right? Just be patient yet persistant and something will come out of it. Talking to girls all the time is a win/win situation because even if she doesn't agree to go out with you all the other girls in the class will see you constantly talking to a girl. They'll begin to feel more comfortable in your presence and therefore be more receptive to you opening them.

That's my advice, if you feel better just number closingdo what everyone else says and get over the fear by practicing on girls out of class.
 
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