"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone else feel wierd about # closing in a lecture hall?

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I always feel like I'll look like a fool # closing and getting rejected in a class.. I don't really care as much if its just me and her, but in class its like ahhh everyone will see and laugh and all that. Anyone else like this, howd you get over it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Its just one of those things that you have to shrug off and laugh about.
 
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I feel weird number closing in a cemetary or an execution chamber, but certainly not a lecture hall.
 
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nobody is going to laugh at u if u number close and dont get it. Most guys seeing this will look at u and think 'i wish i had the balls to do that. and the women will say : "i wish i could meet a confident guy like that'. Number close everywhere, except if ur at a funeral.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well a lecture hall isn't really a regular pickup scene for me. I think that anyone who is a sociable enough person won't rush things when it comes to gaming girls in your class. There are tons of oppurtunies to build rapport and when you have something going on in your life (Hopefully your trying to be a DJ and not just a PUA, then you'd have a life) just ask if she'd like to come along. That's not too embarrassing to do, right? Just be patient yet persistant and something will come out of it. Talking to girls all the time is a win/win situation because even if she doesn't agree to go out with you all the other girls in the class will see you constantly talking to a girl. They'll begin to feel more comfortable in your presence and therefore be more receptive to you opening them.

That's my advice, if you feel better just number closingdo what everyone else says and get over the fear by practicing on girls out of class.
 
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