"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anyone else feel wierd about # closing in a lecture hall?

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I always feel like I'll look like a fool # closing and getting rejected in a class.. I don't really care as much if its just me and her, but in class its like ahhh everyone will see and laugh and all that. Anyone else like this, howd you get over it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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B-Real

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Its just one of those things that you have to shrug off and laugh about.
 

diplomatic_lies

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I feel weird number closing in a cemetary or an execution chamber, but certainly not a lecture hall.
 

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nobody is going to laugh at u if u number close and dont get it. Most guys seeing this will look at u and think 'i wish i had the balls to do that. and the women will say : "i wish i could meet a confident guy like that'. Number close everywhere, except if ur at a funeral.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thefonz

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Well a lecture hall isn't really a regular pickup scene for me. I think that anyone who is a sociable enough person won't rush things when it comes to gaming girls in your class. There are tons of oppurtunies to build rapport and when you have something going on in your life (Hopefully your trying to be a DJ and not just a PUA, then you'd have a life) just ask if she'd like to come along. That's not too embarrassing to do, right? Just be patient yet persistant and something will come out of it. Talking to girls all the time is a win/win situation because even if she doesn't agree to go out with you all the other girls in the class will see you constantly talking to a girl. They'll begin to feel more comfortable in your presence and therefore be more receptive to you opening them.

That's my advice, if you feel better just number closingdo what everyone else says and get over the fear by practicing on girls out of class.
 
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