"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone else experience this?

Fuglydude

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hey all,

One of the components of this site deals w/ techniques to attract women. One of the techniques that I've found works absolutely amazing is going to a club and just jamming on the dance floor by yourself. I LOVE music...and I'm a dancer (i'm not very good at all!) so just jamming at clubs is like doing drills for me. Its a great chance for me to practice and get my nervous system used to different beats.

The funny thing is...there's been many instances where I'll be jamming by myself, and there will be ample IOIs from multiple chics around me. I'm not trying to pick any of these girls up, I'm just zoning out to the music...yet these girls are interested. IOIs' I've seen range from just eye contact and smiles to "getting freaked from behind" by chics to ass-grabbing to having girls being pushed into me by their friends, etc... Also, its always fairly attractive women (HB7 and up) that seem to approach/show bolder IOIs. The weirdest thing about this "technique" (if you wanna call it that) is the "success" rate. There's literally been no bars/clubs that I can remember where I've done this for any significant time and NOT gotten consistent IOIs from atleast some chics.

I'm just wondering if anyone else gets this...I guess I'm just weird for dancing by myself...but I don't really care what anyone thinks of me, so its not like i feel socially awkward doing it. You'd think that chics would think you're an anti-social freak for dancing by yourself...so why is this technique so successful? Does anyone else experience this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vypros

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Learning to dance is probably one of the LARGEST Don Juan weapons you can have in your arsenal.

It's one of the few things you can do to get girls to approach YOU.

Seriously, for those who don't know how to dance, LEARN TO DANCE.
 

ryannath

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So, you go and dance by yourself. I bet you look like a doofis doing that. I wouldn't go around dancing with myself, but if it works, cool.
 
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